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SOULMATES Gd Picked your Soulmate


You know, Chosson [groom], I want you to know something.  You know, before Gd called out whom you should marry, Gd in His infinite love and mercy looked over the whole entire world.  And Gd took the one girl who fits you the most, which loves you the most… and this is the one whom you’re marrying.   So we bless you that Gd should shine into your heart all the holiness and the sweetness, all the love you need, to be the best husband in the whole world.


It’s a Gift from Heaven to be a Good Wife


And now we’ve got to talk to the holy queen.  Kallah  [bride], you know, you can read all the books on love, you can read all the books on education and still not be a good wife and not be a good mother.  You can have two thousand Ph.D.’s in education, and not know how to talk even one word to your child.  You can give lectures all over the country on marriage counseling, and not even know how to say, “Good morning” to your own husband.  You know what it takes to be a good wife?  It’s a gift from Heaven. It’s a gift from Heaven.  And this gift is given to you right now.  Do you know how many millions of women would like Gd to give them that gift?  And do you know that you have the privilege to marry the one man you love the most?  Can you imagine what that means?  Do you know, it’s possible to do everything right, and sit in Paradise for ever, and never to taste what love is all about?  And can you imagine, Gd blessed you so much, so much, so much. Gd blessed you and your Chosson so much.

If you want to become one with someone else, you can only do it with joy. 


Why is there so much joy at a wedding?  Not because there is a wedding, therefore there is joy.  It’s the other way around.  Without the great joy, there wouldn’t be a wedding.  Because how can you put two people together, unless they reach the heights of their joy? 



Daily Torah Quote

Joke of the day

The Ropshitzer Rebbe was famous for his sense of humor.

Once one of his followers asked him, “What is the reason for your custom to dress in only white cotton clothes?”

The Ropshitzer Rebbe said, “I cannot reveal this to you now. You must first prepare yourself. Immerse yourself in the ritual bath eighteen times every day. After three weeks come to me and I will reveal the reason to you.”

The follower did exactly as the Rebbe ordered, and after three weeks time he proudly went to the Rebbe.

“I did all that you asked,” said the follower. “Please reveal to me the secret.”

The Rebbe said, “Because it is cheaper.”

The follower was confounded: “What? Because it’s cheaper? Why did I have to immerse eighteen times a day for three weeks? Why couldn’t you just tell me?”

The Rebbe answered, “If I would have just told you, then you would have just told someone else, and he would have told someone else, and so on…. And before you know it the price would go up.”